The liquidity of member of contemporary China society is higher and higher, be born, grow, the job the person day on one ground is little, the changes of the marriage common that arises from this, light person profundity experienced Rangdangdainian " marry fatigue " Zhang Wei of reporter of international pioneer gazette power report Miss Su is northeast person, home of marital gold gentleman is in Beijing, two people work in Tianjin. After Beijing did a ceremony, young husband and wife two placed marriage alcoholic drink in Tianjin and the northeast native place of Miss Su again, great dinner kisses friend. Go there and back a few times after rushing about, fresh be replaced by the tired out place of body and mind already with joyance.
"Bridal chamber spends candle night " all along is considered as one of hour with the the best, happiest life. Thoughout the history, marry to always let a person already excited exhaustion. And time is entered after now, common of certain and traditional marriage perhaps is simplified, but multifarious wedding and new experiencing deeplier what occurrence marriage common makes people is enjoying happiness however " marry fatigue " .
Nomad type is bridal
Be in China now, unripe like Miss Su He Jinxian such, marry should run the there are plenty of such people of wedding of 34 places buy. The leader of ground of the good friend of the elders of a country or district for attend to home town, teachers and students when reading, job works in the same place, a lot of people can be in the place of respective home town, job to place wine to congratulate respectively. And the local fete classmate that is reading and teacher, it is a trend that appears in recent years. Contemporary society makes society of a stranger inereasingly, while social circle expands quickly, favor also becomes dim, the youth values what the knot when schoolfellow is read in all falls to be without utilitarian colorific friendship more. Value the person of friendly feelings of the classmate when the university, often can choose to return the city that read to do marriage banquet again. Such, the wedding of a lot of people turned nomadism into type, spousal is held in different city, different spot, time also can be continuous very long.
"I written guarantee eventually got married! " Mr Wang that lives in Shandong Linyi does last desk to marry in those days since memory the feeling when feast, still sigh with emotion myriad. 2003 the beginning of the year, mr Wang proposes to the cummer that interacted 3 years, cummer assents willingly. Two people begin to prepare wedding then. Although Mr Wang thinks everything conforms to the principle of simplicity, but bilateral parents meets, next betrothal gift, be engaged wine, also do not have like little. Restaurant is ordered later, send invitation letter to relatives and friends, search marriage celebrate a company to wait a moment, good do a few bridal ceremonies not easily, time had arrived the second half of the year 2004.
Be opposite as Miss Zhao of teacher lecturer of marriage " troublesome " also have the same feeling: "Always want so long, a lot of things are otherwise busy do not be over. Light orders restaurant very troublesome, the restaurant that the end of the year orders, the likelihood just will be discharged in September next year on. I have a friend, prepared 20 days to marry, the result is tired thin 20 jins, a day a jin of where! A day a jin of where!!
" international pioneer gazette " the reporter in interviewing discovery in young to ten pairs couple, marry time lasts the shortest also have half an year, the longest expended two years of time. Decorate relatives and friends of wedding of house, plan, check, pick a day, every this a variety of, the new people that makes the busy preparation that go to work bridal bears mashed vegetable or fruit like swallow kind busy.
All of body and mind is exhausted " happy event "
The wedding of nomad type brings newlywed person suffer from besides what rush about, intentional still force hands in tired. When the mood when the reporter asks Miss Zhao holds wedding, she says: "Excited still be some, but thinking so that more returning in the heart is what to person has not invited, what situation still can be encountered in the ceremony, want preparation what has not gotten ready, whether to still have what did not think of, did not take care of, be afraid of have discourteous place. Be being pestered by these bagatelle, what mood also was done not have. What mood also was done not have..
"The exhaustion on the body is less important, basically be a heart tired. " when Mr Wang speaks of a variety of conjugal cumber, say so. Mr Wang says frankly to the reporter, before marrying, he did not think of to marry the meeting is so troublesome, "Too trival, the way of the world, detail of items of an account, below the condition that seeks a person to help, still a lot of trivial issues want him to handle. Develop this, I also won't marry the 2nd times again! I also won't marry the 2nd times again!!
Miss Li of Beijing also poured out same embarrassment to the reporter: "My preexistence Beijing did a wedding, the package fell to go vacationing a hall of the village, friends gather, idle away in seeking pleasure is very optional. The husband's family that goes to a married woman's parents' home of Shenyang and Nanjing later did feast twice again, asked emcee, did a ceremony, very troublesome, far when doing not have first time happy. Far when doing not have first time happy..
After all where day calculates marry
Spousal becomes nowadays more more blindfold, complex. The introduced from the northern and western nationalities or from abroad sword of senior and bridal emcee of Beijing says to the reporter, he once was a pair of new personality chaired Chinese style, Western-style, individuation 3 days continuously 3 wedding. Introduced from the northern and western nationalities or from abroad gentleman expresses, present youth marries " very can do sth over and over again " , marine dive is steam ball wedding, bridal, multiform emerge in endlessly.
Be in for many times below the ablution of marriage banquet, tired out newlywed people can'ted help producing bewilderment -- after all which talent calculates conjugal time? Be to register that day? Bridal that day? Still return what the ceremony does in man home that day? Apparent, the wedding of nomad type, had made new people busy faint first.
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